Tuesday, November 10, 2009

How Lee Kuan Yew sees M'sia in 20 yrs' time

The clear and present danger

If the Doomsday prediction never comes true, New Zealand will remain as picturesque after a hundred years, with cows and goats roaming all over the country sparesely populated by humans.

A hundred years later, Singapore's foundation will remain rock solid. The tiny city-state will continue to lure new immigrants, and many new-generation Singaporeans will see their lineages traced back to those of migrants.

How about Malaysia a hundred years from now?

Lee Kuan Yew did not seem to see things that far. He only set his sight 20 years later.

He said all constituencies in Malaysia would be dominated by the Malays in 20 years' time, and the leadership in this country would value the Chinese population less and less.

The Chinese population would continue to slide, he added, not because of the pathetically low fertility rates among the Chinese in this country, but because those who could afford would have sent their children overseas, who would decide not to come back.

"And those migrating to Malaysia will be from Islamic states, making the country's Islamisation inclination more and more pronounced."

Statistics don't lie, and the current political and social ecosystems are not here without a reason.
MM Lee's predictions are by no means novel. But his well-thought remarks have touched the hearts of many a Malaysian.

If this is what the country should look like 20 years from now, we can imagine Chinese Malaysians to be like apes in a forest sanctuary a hundred years down the road, where we need to sharpen our eyesight to carefully scan through the entire swathe of forest before we can catch a glimpse of one or two of them.

That comparison is, most certainly, exaggerated, but I really hope we will not be reduced to a rare species by then.

The ratio of Chinese population in this country has been on steady decline over the decades; so has their political status here. Very soon, they will be completely engulfed by the powerful waves of aggressive Islamisation.

This is the pessimistic side of the outlook of their destiny.

But Chinese Malaysians cannot afford to go on this way, and wait helplessly for such a destiny to befall them.

They have to take the initiative to accentuate their own strengths and be in firm control of their own fates before they can divert such a predestination.

The next ten years will be key to the future destiny of Chinese Malaysians. If the country's policies get more and more ethnically-oriented and religiously inclined, the future of Chinese community is well within our imagination, and Chinese Malaysians will exit the country in droves.

On the other hand, if community-centric ideologies get diluted, conflicts between mainstream and minority races get thinned down, the common Malaysian identity gets consolidated, and the spirit of secularity stays very much relevant, then Chinese Malaysians will have a much more promising future here.

So will Malaysia.

Whatever happens to this country or our society, the most important element for new-generation Chinese to secure a place in this land, will be their very own competitiveness.

In this age of globalisation, when national boundaries are increasingly obscured, people will find a greener pasture beyond our shores if our internal conditions remain this bleak.

We cannot afford to talk about what will happen to us a hundred years from now. We need to buck up and fight for our near-term opportunities.

Meaningless and unnecessary squabbles, like the one currently taking place within MCA, will only serve to bog down the pace of the Chinese community further, blurring their vision of the clear and present danger.

What the Chinese community urgently needs right now is high-calibre and farsighted leadership, not one engrossed with endless infighting.

(By TAY TIAN YAN/Translated by DOMINIC LOH/Sin Chew Daily)
MySinchew 2009.10.21

So question is..What now?...

Kim

Sunday, November 8, 2009

21 commandments

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.



TWO.
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.



THREE.
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.



FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.



FIVE.
When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.



SIX..
Be engaged at least six months before you get married..



SEVEN.
Believe in love at first sight.



EIGHT.
Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.



NINE.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.



TEN..
In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.



ELEVEN.
Don't judge people by their relatives..



TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.



THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'



FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.



FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.



SIXTEEN.
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.



SEVENTEEN.
Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.



EIGHTEEN.
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.



NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.



TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice



TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.


xoxo
Kim

Saturday, November 7, 2009

So this post and next few will be dedicated to all them old pictures that I have yet to put up and are way too overdue! ;)
Enjoy..=)

Hannah babe & I :D

Align Center


@ Pasta Zanmai!

With Honey babe! =D


Sitting in the gym.

Camwhores for life. ;)

xoxo
Kim (:

Promise not to lie or erase any of these questions?
Yeap. (:

If you married the last person that texted you what would your last name be?
Wan.

What's the most important part of a relationship in your opinion?
Definitely trust and honesty.

Do you think the person you like is cute?
Yeah I guess so.

What's the first thing that pops into your head when you think of last summer?
Damn I wasn't on holiday.

Are there songs you cant listen to because they remind you of someone?
I still listen to them.

Would you rather have no heat in winter or no A/C in the summer?
No heat.

When was the last time you talked to your best friend?
A couple of mornings ago.

Wearing any bracelets?
Nop.

Honestly, have you ever eaten raw cookie dough?
Haha! Of course!

Are any of your friends taller than you?
Hah! Most. I'm short. Hehe..^^

How many text messages are currently in your inbox?
141.

Did you copy and paste this survey?
Obviously.

Have you ever dated a football player?
Yeah.

Is there anything pink within 10 feet of you?
Nop.

Where do you wish you were right now?
California.

How late did you stay up last night and why?
Pretty late, don't remember why.

If your boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you, would you take them back?
No.

Are you planning on having a kid?
Yeah, in the future. (=

Do you consider yourself a study freak?
LOL! No way!

Is there someone you liked so much and nothing ever happened?
Lol, I was simply highly infatuated. (=

Do you think you can last in a relationship for 6 months without cheating?
Yeap! =D

If you woke up in one of the Saw movies, do you think you could survive?
I'd probably end up crying or maybe I'd die. Gosh..depressing thought.

If someone liked you, would you want them to tell you?
Yes.

Do you believe that if you want something bad enough you'll get it?
Nop.

Is there anyone who doesn't like you?
I think so.

What's one thing you do when you're mad/sad?
I listen so a sad song over and over again.

Ever been called a bitch?
Haha, yeah.

Who was the last person to make you smile?
Mom! :D

When's the next time you'll see your closest friend?
Hmm..I don't know.

Who is your favorite person to have long conversations with?
Him.

Is anyone over protective over you?
Yeah but it's okay, they mean the best for me.

Will you be in a relationship next month?
I don't know.

Do you trust all of your friends?
Not all.

Are you any good at math?
Unfortunately I'm not.

Do you have a reason to smile?
Always.

What was the first thing you thought this morning?
Aiyoh..who's calling me at 12 in the afternoon?!

What are you currently listening to?
Taylor Swift's - White Horse

Where is your phone?
Next to me.

Last time you felt bad about something?
Like just..literally..Just.

Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
Maybe. (:

Do you miss your past?
No not really, I look toward the future. ;)

Do you ever think "what if ''?
Surprisingly no.

Are you happy with the way things are going?
Yeap! =D

Would you ever get a tattoo?
Totally, maybe when I'm 18 or something.

Do you mind sleeping on the floor?
If it's on a yoga mat I don't mind.

Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to?
No way! Haha!

Who was the last person you talked to on the phone?
Megan.

Do think you'll be married in 10 years?
Who knows.

Would you go in public looking like you do right now?
No way.

Have you ever made someone so mad that they broke something?
Let's just say she slammed the door pretty hard.

This time last year, what was your love life like?
Haha, it was hell.

Can you recall the last time you sincerely loved someone you dated?
Yeah I can.

What are your LEGAL initials?
KWMW.

Is there someone who you can spend every minute with and be happy?
Maybe there is.

Your last kiss, what does it remind you of?
Football.

What are you excited about?
Bowling tomorrow! :D

Do you sneak candy into the movie theater?
At times.

If your best friend said they were running away, what would you do?
Why?! Aiyaa...

When is the next time you will kiss someone?
I don't know.

Do you do any form of art?
I doodle. Haha..

What is your favorite breed of dog?
Husky!!

Do you wear a belt with every pair of jeans?
No.

Do you use people?
I probably have but not anymore.

Who was the last person you talked to last night before bed?
Jordie.

Do you have both a loud side and a quiet side?
More to loud than quiet. Heh.

I'll bet you miss someone right now?
Lots of someones.

Do you have any bruises?
Yes! On both my shins!

Why did you last cry?
I don't remember when I last cried so I don't remember why I cried either! Haha!

Was yesterday better than today?
Yea, probably so.

How are you feeling?
Happy, A lil tired, Not as confused as I was earlier. Altogether, glad. =)

What is your favorite thing to shop for?
Most likely food. LOL!

Do you usually listen to your parents?
I try to.

Honestly, has anyone seen you in your underwear in the past three months?
I think so yes.

Did you see a boy today that made you smile?
Nop, I saw 2 boys who made me scared!

What is today's date?
November 7th.

How important is trust?
It's extremely important.

Are you the oldest of your siblings?
Nop, the youngest. ;)

Ever read one book in one day?
Yeah.

Something you do a lot?
Eat? Sleep?

Have you ever liked someone who treated you like crap?
Yeah a long time ago.

Is there anything in your past that you'd like to try again?
Nah.

Have you ever thrown your cell phone in anger?
No but I've dropped it by accident countless times.

Do you think you can love someone without trusting them?
No way.

Would you rather be the heartbroken or the heart breaker?
Heart breaker.

Do you prefer people who talk a lot or are quiet?
People who talk alot.

What's bothering you right now?
Nothing really.

Do you think age matters in relationships?
yYeah, maturity levels.

Who did you last take a picture with?
Sonya babe! :D

Have you ran into an old friend lately?
I don't think so.

Have you ever kissed the last person you texted?
What? My sister? Na-uh.

Do you say 'fuck' a lot?
Not very often.

Was last night terrible?
Nope.

Has someone of the opposite sex ever told you they loved you, and meant it?
Of course! My dad! Lol!

What were you doing 12 AM last night?
I was watching Wipeout Australia with sister dearest. :D

Who was the last person you had a conversation with on the phone?
Megan.

Are you anyone's first love?
I don't know.

Do you look people in the eye when you talk to them?
Yeap! :D

Think of your last 20 kisses, were they with the same person?
No.

Do you get drunk every weekend?
No.

Something tragic just happened, does your facial expression show it?
Depends.

Last person you kissed calls you, what are they calling for?
That didn't happen so no idea.

Have you ever kissed somebody whose name starts with a J, E or M?
Nop.

How's your ex doing right now?
Fine I guess.

What should you be doing right now?
Probably my book report. Ngeh.

Do you believe in forever?
That I'm not sure.

When was the last time you saw your mom?
Like 10 minutes ago.

Do you get irritated easily?
Depends.


Love,
Kim (:

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Aiyayaaa....I am so short of time and I can't update meanwhile there are so many things going on and coming up!
Like OMG!

1) Jacq's Birthday Celebration!
2) Graduation Night Rehearsal (I'm emcee-ing! =D)!
3) Grace's Birthday Celebration + Lunch + Movie!
4) Graduation Night!
5) Danielle's House Party!
6) Malacca Field Trip!
7) Megan's Birthday Celebration!
8) Class Trip @ Sunway Pyramid!
9) Emerge '09!
10) School Camp in Genting!
11) Outing with Sabrina!

Whoa that's alot...
Goshers anyways, updates from all of the above during November and more if added and Octobers updates! Till then! Tataa! Nights! :D

Love,
Kim (: